am gasit o retete de risotto cu fenicul pe care o s-o fac asta seara
o ceapa, un morcov si o bucata de praz o sa le calesc intr-un pic de unt si-o lingura de ulei. O sa adaug feniculul taiat cubulete, orezul, o sa le mai calesc toate impreuna cateva minute si o sa le sting cu o cana de vin alb. O sa continui gatitul cu apa ca nu am fond. La sfarsit o sa adaug parmezan razuit, un cubuletz de unt si o sa las sa stea cateva minute.
oricum stau sa le numar tot 5 ore mai am pana termin serviciul si is terminata si eu de tot. Poate o sa invat de data asta sa ma pun pe MINE prima data si nu firma... mai am maine zi cu terapie si lucru pana tarziu de tot, apoi 4 zile libere de la serviciu. Dupa aia o sa numai 3 cu terapie si serviciu, pentru care o sa imi iau concediu medical! Fara sa mai negociez cu mine! In toata viata mea am avut de 2 ori concediu medical. O data in romania cand am facut varicela (1 saptamana) si o data aici cand am facut laringo-faringo nu stiu ce (1 saptamana) de n-am avut voce!
E ok sa merg in concediu de boala chiar daca firma pare ca o sa descurce greu fara mine. Sa merg in concediu de boala nu insemna ca-mi abandonez colegele la nevoie!!!. Sau?
Lectia de azi:
You are reading from the book The Language of Letting Go
Solving Problems
"Shame is the first feeling that strikes me whenever I, or someone I love, has a problem," said one recovering woman.
Many of us were raised with the belief that having a problem is something to be ashamed of.
This belief can do many damaging things to us. It can stop us from identifying our problems; it can make us feel alienated and inferior when we have, or someone we love has, a problem. Shame can block us from solving a problem and finding the gift from the problem.
Problems are a part of life. So are solutions. People have problems, but we, and our self-esteem, are separate from our problems.
I've yet to meet a person who didn't have problems to solve, but I've met many who felt shamed to talk about the problems they actually had solved!
We are more than our problems. Even if our problem is our own behavior, the problem is not who we are - it's what we did.
It's okay to have problems. It's okay to talk about problems at appropriate times, and with safe people. It's okay to solve problems.
And we're okay, even when we have, or someone we love has, a problem. We don't have to forfeit our personal power or our self-esteem. We have solved exactly the problems we've needed to solve to become who we are.
Today, I will let go of my shame about problems.
Am constatat ca mie mi-e rusine cand sunt bolnava!!